| Social networking sites have many advantages, but easily maintaining distinct lines between your personal and professional life isn't one of them. Something as simple as stating your political views on Facebook or tweeting about how you're overwhelmed at work can present some awkward moments if read by colleagues. Following are three sticky social media situations, along with tips on how to handle them: You wish you weren't someone's "friend." Say you attend a local Photoshop Meetup event and, a few days later, a web designer you met invites you to connect with her on Facebook. Since you chatted briefly with the person – and don't want her to take your non-acceptance as rejection – you agree to the request. Unfortunately, once you do so, she begins obnoxiously commenting on nearly every one of your posts – and even tries to "friend" some of your friends. What should you do? If you ever find yourself in a situation like this, you might consider adjusting your privacy settings to create a "work" list of contacts who wouldn't be privy to more personal posts. Another option is to direct professional acquaintances to LinkedIn for connecting. You're tagged in an unflattering photo. When you were in college 15 years ago, you probably never thought a photo of you in a magenta tube skirt taking tequila shots with friends would come back to haunt you. But now an old classmate has made it her personal hobby to tag you and others in a series of unflattering images on Facebook. Perhaps your "friend" thinks it's cute to post such pictures, but when your contacts include professional colleagues, debaucherous images from the past lose some of their nostalgia. What should you do? If you find yourself the victim of unflattering photo tags, untag yourself and privately e-mail the person posting them to say you'd prefer not to be tagged in future photos. You also can adjust your privacy settings so photos are only viewable by your close friends. You make a rookie mistake. Some of the more embarrassing social media moments happen when users don't quite comprehend the "power" at their fingertips. Perhaps you post a complaint on Facebook about an old boss, not realizing that you "friended" her months ago. Hours later, you receive an e-mail from your ex-boss about the gaffe, but there's no arguing: the damage is done. What should you do? Make sure you fully understand the parameters (and who is friends with whom) of whatever social media tool you're using. And always be diplomatic because your comments could come back to bite you. Key take-away: It's critical to keep your reputation as your first priority when using social media. Remember that your posts can, in effect, serve as a sort of living history of your interests, knowledge and professionalism. If you wouldn't want an employer to read it, don't post, tweet or blog about it. And if you do have an awkward situation, take proactive steps to remedy it as quickly as possible. |